The Hawaiian people believe that everyone on earth is born with a perfect bowl of light. In this mindfulness / self-care activity a person learns to cherish this bowl of light they will be strong and in sync with the universe and all creatures that inhabit it. This mindfulness / self care activity is the practice of “Pono” in Hawaiian culture. If a person does not take care of their personal bowl of light they will be fearful, anxious, and full of worry and doubt.
The mindfulness / self-care activity is called the “Bowl of Light” begins with a beautiful bowl and a handful of rocks. For this mindfulness / self-care activity when someone has a negative thought, negative interaction, or reacts to something with fear instead of love the person must add a rock to the bowl. Each time a rock is added to the bowl light is lost and the rocks block the light. The concept is that light and stone cannot occupy the same space. Basically this mindfulness / self care activity translates to the meaning that love and fear cannot occupy the same space.
If the bowl becomes full of rocks the person will not be able to fully grow and develop in love, but in fear and darkness. However, if the mindfulness / self care Bowl of Light becomes full of rocks one can make the choice to stop the stones from blocking the light. The Hawaiian Elders often gave their grandchildren a Bowl of Light and taught them self care and mindfulness by emptying the bowl at the end of the day and allow the light to shine through. By doing this the Hawaiian Elders helped their grandchildren to become aware of their thoughts and actions by analyzing each stone placed in the Bowl of Light. This taught the children how to take responsibility for their behavior, actions, and cognitions.
If one’s “Bowl of Light” is full of stones the person should take responsibility, meditate, and ask forgiveness for the stone. Basically, you see how the stones weigh the bowl down and block the light. Using mindfulness one sees that they have become a “stone” due to their thoughts and actions and admits that they do not want to be a “stone” the next day. The goal is to have fewer stones the following day and one has learned from the stone being a burden to leading a life of love and light.
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